Networking for Introverted Writers: 5 Ways to Build Better Connections

Confession time… Networking has always been a bit of a struggle for me. As a business owner and writer who classes herself as an introvert, putting myself out there and meeting new people often feels daunting. It took me years to actually tell people that my job was ‘a writer’ – I just didn’t feel worthy, which didn’t make the idea of networking any easier (obviously, my confidence was low and I had a poor mindset). I even felt uncomfortable calling myself a business owner and the thought of navigating large gatherings or initiating conversations can often feel overwhelming. But over time, I’ve come to realise the importance of networking in advancing my career as a writer.

Building connections isn’t just about meeting people; it’s about creating opportunities, gaining insights, and forming lasting relationships. As writers and entrepreneurs, our network can open doors to collaborations, publishing opportunities, and valuable feedback on our work. Despite the initial discomfort, stepping out of my comfort zone has been crucial in growing both personally and professionally.

How to Overcome Networking Challenges and Build Lasting Connections

Start Small: Begin by connecting with fellow writers, business owners, or industry professionals online through social media platforms like Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, or other writer/business forums. These virtual interactions can be less intimidating and provide a stepping stone to in-person networking.
Focus on Quality: Instead of trying to meet everyone at an event, aim to have meaningful conversations with a few people who share similar interests or goals. Building genuine connections often starts with finding common ground.
Prepare and Practice: Before attending networking events or reaching out to new contacts, prepare a few conversation starters or topics of interest. Practice introducing yourself and discussing your work concisely but confidently.
Follow-Up: After making initial connections, follow up with a brief email or message to express your appreciation for the conversation and to continue building the relationship. Consistent communication helps nurture connections over time.
Join Writing or Business Groups or Workshops: Participating in business or writing groups, workshops, or online courses focused on those topics can provide structured networking opportunities where you can learn from others and showcase your skills in a supportive environment.

Embracing networking as an introvert is a journey that requires patience and persistence. For me, it’s now a breath of fresh air because I’m passionate about what I do. If you focus on meaningful interactions and take small steps outside your comfort zone, you’ll gradually build a network that supports your writing journey and opens up new opportunities.

Much love, Janet XOXO